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"We do not earn or merit anything by taking refuge in God. Hiding in something makes no contribution to the hiding place. All it does is show that we regard ourselves as helpless and the hiding place as a place of rescue." John Piper

Saturday, February 20, 2010

He Restoreth My Soul - Some Passionate Honesty


A Dry Spell in the Desert
We all struggle in like manner as Christian women. As for me, I have just come from a very long trek in the desert - a spiritual desert that often had me wondering if I was even God's child. It felt like the "valley of the shadow of death".

We have all had these kinds of wrestlings, I know. That is why I am going to be completely transparent in this post...for the encouragement of those who are currently in the desert for a time of testing. This is not unusual. What we must remember is that it is God's Spirit who leads us into the wilderness and and it is He who will bring us out. Even Jesus underwent a season of testing, being led by the Spirit into the wilderness for this very purpose (Matthew 4:1-11).

A Need for Restored Love
For sometime now I have felt so defeated in my walk with the Lord. I think the bottom line is that I had lost my First Love for the Lord Jesus. Consider what Revelation 2:2-6 says, "I know your works, your toil and your patient endurance, and how you cannot bear with those who are evil, but have tested those who call themselves apostles and are not, and found them to be false.  I know you are enduring patiently and bearing up for my name's sake, and you have not grown weary.  But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first.  Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent, and do the works you did at first. If not, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place, unless you repent."

Just like the saints at the church on Ephesus, by God's grace, I had not dropped out of ministry. Every opportunity was taken to minister God's word to the women in my Bible study and on other occasions (though I had no desire to teach). I was working for His name's sake. And God always blessed His word to my heart and to the women. But there was no joy and I felt like such a phony, such a hypocrite, all because of that lost love for Christ.

Freedom to be Honest
The women's study I chose for this year was Seeking Him - Experiencing the Joy of Personal Revival by Nancy Leigh DeMoss. God put it in my hand as a tool for my own restoration. From the start, I told the women in the study that I was the one in need of that work. I finally had the freedom to be honest with them and with God and no longer felt like a phony.

But still, like I mentioned, the joy just wasn't there. The only reason I opened God's word was either out of guilt or to study for teaching. If I did actually crack open God's word in between the women's Bible studies, I felt so empty after reading, like God was just not in it. I simply had no desire to read, though I really wanted that desire. How I longed to regain the joy of His salvation, which was King David's desire also, and to sit again at Jesus' feet, like Mary of Bethany. "Restore to me the joy of Your salvation and sustain me with a willing spirit." (Psalm 51:12) was my constant prayer.

Things Got Worse - Distractions, Cynicism, and Hidden Sins
For years past, I had tasted of the goodness and tenderness of the Lord on a daily basis - so connected to Him for so long. I thought that nothing would ever change that. I so wanted that back. But then the Lord impressed upon me that I should not want to go back, I should want a walk with Him that was even better than the majority of years I had been so close to Him. This is what I kept asking Him for, but things didn't get better. They got worse.

At one point I remembered that we had John Piper's book When I Don't Desire God. I thought about reading it but couldn't work up the desire. Sounds funny, but there I was caught in that spiritual-oxymoron. I wanted God, but I didn't. It made me frustrated and angry that He would not disclose Himself to me.

As this all progressed I began to discover many "good distractions". Blogging, digital photography and scrapbooking were some, etc. I actually preferred the distractions. I knew this was nothing short of idolatry, but I could not seem to escape.

An ugly cynicism kept rearing its head as well as other sinful attitudes. I continued to confess these known sins, but I knew there must be hidden sins that I was unaware of. I began to plead with God that He would expose those to me. One hidden sin He had revealed - a distrustful attitude toward a spiritual leader - but that had been several years back and I had repented and dealt with it. I knew that there must be more because God only disciplines for good reason. He does not enjoy my sorrow in the midst of it, but He knows it will result in righteousness and peace for me. 

During the horrific recovery from my knee surgery, I knew exactly what God was doing, though I was still in the dark about those sins that I was unaware of. I would weep, knowing that the pain was given to drive me to Him and it did.

Layers Peeled Away
But it wasn't until my mom died suddenly in November, after the infection and pain were relieved in my knee, that the Lord really began to show me more hidden sins. As each was revealed and I repented I would wonder if this was the restoration I had been waiting and yearning for. There was immediate joy, but it would fade within days and I was right back where I began, or so it seemed. (Just so you know, there were three things that the Lord showed me that I had not seen at all before - attitudes that I had held onto that did not glorify Him. Of course wrong attitudes also manifest outwardly. But I was not out in the world living in gross sin, so to speak, though my sin was gross to God and also to me once He had uncovered it for me.)

I knew God was peeling away the dead outer layers of sin  - like I peel an onion to make it ready to use. But nevertheless, I was felt so defeated. I told God that I simply could not be holy as He commanded and asked Him why He expected it of me. "I have no desire to read Your word, so how can I live as I ought without that joyful input that I need? Lord, I am starving spiritually and You are not reviving me. How long, O Lord, how long will you wait?"

Confidence in God's Faithfulness
And then the Lord reminded me to be confident that "He who began a good work in you, will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus" (Philippians 1:6). So I placed my trust in Him, "Lord, my confidence is in You. I trust you to sanctify me and conform me to Your Son. You will give me back the desire for Your word; You will restore me; You will revive my joy in You; You will rekindle my First Love." I reminded myself of that truth (Philippians 4:8) every time my heart began to sink back in to despair. Just resting in Him this way brought such peace to my soul.

Choose
On this past January 31st the Lord did restore me. I knew immediately that the struggle was over. What had been so difficult for me (no, it was impossible), God did in an instant. It started early that morning, just before a morning shower, when He, through an email from a dear sister, brought to my attention part of Joshua 24:15, "...choose for yourself today whom you will serve..."

As I showered, I contemplated the verse, but not as it applied to me, rather as I thought it applied to someone else who, in my wise opinion, needed to take a stand on something. So as I was praying that verse for that other person, the Lord abruptly interrupted me and impressed upon me my need for the application of Joshua 24:15. He spoke to me, "Be still, daughter. Don't you realize that it is you who needs to decide today, this very day and each day beyond today, who you will serve? Will you choose to serve Me or yourself?"


Green Pastures and Quiet Waters
WOW!!! What a cleansing shower that was. I hadn't been that clean in a while and that was even before I started to lather up.

What a simple yet powerful word "choose" is. So I asked the Lord to put that one little word on my heart and in my mind every morning when I woke. And He has. He made it so simple. Now every morning I make my choice, the only sane choice. Like Joshua said, "...as for me...I will serve the Lord."

This has been so refreshing, so motivating, so restorative. I am once again absolutely delighting in the Lord and in His precious word. I am again sitting at my Savior's feet and hearing Him speak to me through His word. He has restored my joy in Him. He has given me back my First Love. He, as my Shepherd, has has led me to green pastures and quiet waters for a repast that is plentiful and rich. It is even better than before for one of the hidden sins God revealed had long been gripping me, even when I had walked so closely with Him, before He led me into the desert. Now nothing seems impossible.

My Encouragement to You
Please do not give up if you are living in the desert of joylessness. Here are some practical ways you can begin to be guided through that valley of the shadow of death and into God's green pastures:

1. Keep asking God to restore you.

2. There may be sin that you are unaware of. Ask Him as David did, "See if there is any wicked way in me and lead in the way everlasting." (Psalm 139:24). Be honest with God when He reveals those things and repent. Be prepared to let Him reveal more also. Also, ask Him to grant you repentance. (Romans 2:4; 2 Timothy 2:25)

3. Stay in ministry for it is often through ministry that you will be restored. God did it that way for me. Ministry forced me to remain connected to the body of Christ, kept me going back to the word and ultimately drove me to be honest with the women I taught, with God and with myself.

4. Be confident that the Lord works to restore His precious child through discipline. Do not fight against it. Give yourself to it. (Hebrews 12:5-6, 11)

5. Finally, place your trust in the Lord and in His faithfulness to restore you. You cannot do it, but He is more than able. "He restores my soul." (Psalm 23:3).

God not only restored me but also gave me a sonnet (it can be sung to the tune of Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing) about His work of restoration:

Lord, Restore Me

How I’ve wandered, Lord restore me,
To the One who loves my soul.
How I long again to praise Thee;
Come, O Savior, make me whole.
(Chorus 1)

Chorus 1:
Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it.
Prone to leave the God I love.
Here’s my heart, oh take and heal it.
Glorify Your name above.

Long it’s been since joy departed;
Far too long I’ve gone astray.
Lord, revive my love whole-hearted.
Do this work in me today.
(Repeat Chorus 1)

Make me holy, help me seek Thee.
Lord, in You I put my trust.
I am weak, O God, renew me;
You are able, I am dust.
(Chorus 2)

Chorus 2:
Please forgive and, Lord, restore me
To my first and only Love.
Give me passion to adore Thee;
Ardor for Thy courts above.

Lord, each day I’ll choose to serve Thee.
You are worthy of my life.
By Your grace You have restored me;
And my joy, You have revived.
(Chorus 3)

Chorus 3:
Grace to love you, yes! I feel it.
Grace to cleave unto my Lord.
Here’s my heart, oh take and keep it,
Keep it now and evermore.

Copyright 2010 Sharon Kaufman
(Words in bold italics from original hymn, Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing, by Robert Robinson)

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Sunday, February 14, 2010

A Valentine's Day Outing

Yesterday, for Valentine's Day, Robert and I took a day trip through the Napa Valley. It was breathtaking! The mustard was blooming in the vineyards as it does every year when Spring nears. The grape vines have not yet started budding out, so the mustard contrasted against the dark woody grape vine trunks was truly a spectacular sight.

It was a wonderful opportunity to get to try out the new SLR camera that Robert gifted me with several months ago toward the end of my knee surgery recovery. After so many months stuck in the house, it seemed like I would never get out and do things again. Robert, knowing that I wanted to get into photography (with a nice camera), thought it might just do the trick to motivate me to get moving. And so it did, though for months now I've been reading about how to operate the camera. It's all new to me.

To a really good photographer, these photos are probably just mediocre at best, but I was thrilled to see how they turned out.

Yesterday was such a crisp, clear day. The clouds were beautiful, as you can see.

Without foliage on the vines, the mustard flowers put on quite a show.

Here I experimented with the aperture set to blur the background.

 
Cool looking background. Creation resounds with the glory of God -
I especially like the wonderful creation in the foreground! Oh, baby, I love you so!

Robert took this one of me.

Wow! Just look at that mustard! Beautiful!

And more.

I really liked this picket fence and took a few photos of it.

Robert with the picket fence in the background. This photo gave me the idea of looking for mailboxes that have our birth years on them (though 1944 was actually several years before Robert was born).

  Here's the picket fence again. Did this photo play a trick on your eyes when you first looked at it?

And again. I like that corner post. They don't make them like that anymore.


Recommended by our youngest daughter, we took time from the mustard fields to visit this funky little thrift shop in St. Helena. After walking in, the cashier told us that they were closing in five minutes (it was in the middle of the day - who would have guessed?). So I took a quick sweeping tour of the shop, focused especially on the pots and pans since I have been looking for a covered cast iron Dutch oven, but found nothing of the sort. Then, as I was leaving, I cast a glance toward a shelf of odds and ends, reached out to pick up a metal basket and was quite surprised to see the very Dutch oven I have been looking for and in good condition at that. Now I can make the bread I've been drooling over for the past three months - a no-knead whole wheat bread that bakes in a cast iron Dutch oven. I'll let you know how it turns out!

This photo almost looks like there is snow on the trees and the roof of the barn. The trees were heavy with lichen and the roof of the barn was of tin construction, giving it that silvery, snowy look.

Robert and me in front of the barn.

Again, in front of the barn with a peace sign over us. Being an x-hippie, Robert still relates.

Under a tree in front of a field of mustard.

Up Valley in Calistoga - obviously.

This was taken on a side road off of the Silverado Trail.

More mustard.

I liked the way the mustard looked against the rusty metal vine support.

This photo was taken as the sun was starting to go down. You can see 
sunbeams streaming through the tree at the top left.

Here are some young vines amidst many mustard blooms.

What an utterly sweet little cow!

More milk machines. Love to see them out on tender green grass - exactly what God created for them to eat. This was the last photo of the day...such a nice day at that.

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Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Some Thoughts on Holiness


 

Since holiness is all about our state of spiritual cleanliness before the Lord, I thought this piece by Mary Cassatt depicted that condition well. Here is a child who is basically clean, but as she walks about during the day, she gets her feet dirty. Her kind mother is assisting her in washing her feet. 

Jesus told His disciples when He stooped to wash their feet, "The one who has bathed does not need to wash, except for his feet, but is completely clean. And you are clean..." (meaning that they had been restored to a relationship with God through their faith in who the Christ was). In speaking about the fact that they needed to have their "feet washed" Jesus referred to their personal sin on a daily basis, being cleansed from it and restored to fellowship with God.

So it is with holiness. Those who know Christ as their redeemer and Lord, by faith in His work on the cross whereby He bore the penalty of their sins, have been washed by His blood and have a righteous standing before God the Father. We are clothed in Christ's righteousness and that can never change. We have been cleansed and our Heavenly Father now sees His Son when He looks at us. This is called positional holiness. It is our eternal position before God the Father and it will never change.

But we walk in this world and often get dirty. Living in the world, we do succumb to sin and need to have our feet washed, so to speak. Practical holiness is the working out of our positional holiness, evidenced by the way we live and think or the practice of holiness day to day. Though our position before God never changes, our working out of that holiness is not perfect as we live here below, and sometimes we fall, get soiled by sin and need a good foot bath. 

How thankful I am for the promise of 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." With confession of sin we are restored to fellowship and practical holiness. Our tender and compassionate Father does just what the loving parent in the picture does. He takes us onto His lap and He cleanses us with His own holiness. He is always ready (faithful) to assist us when we come to His cleansing basin through the confession of our sin.

These are just some musings that came to mind when I looked at the picture above in regard to holiness. But what does practical holiness look like? Here are some thoughts on holiness from others who have said it much better than I ever could:

Definition of holiness from J. C. Ryle:
Holiness is the habit of being of one mind with God, according as we find His mind described in Scripture. It is the habit of agreeing in God's judgment - hating what He hates - loving what He loves - and measuring everything in this world by the standard of His Word. He who most entirely agrees with God, he is the most holy man.
Jonathan Edwards:
Holiness is a most beautiful and lovely thing. We drink in strange notions of holiness from our childhood, as if it were a melancholy, morose, sour and unpleasant thing; but there is nothing in it but what is sweet and ravishingly lovely."
Thomas Brooks:
Man's holiness is now his greatest happiness, and in heaven, man's greatest happiness will be his perfect holiness.
Gary Thomas:
Sin tastes sweet but turns bitter in our stomachs. Holiness often tastes bitter but turns sweet in our stomachs.
C. H. Spurgeon:
Those who tolerate sin in what they think to be little things, will soon indulge it in greater matters.
F. F. Bruce:
Christian holiness is not a matter of painstaking conformity to the individual precepts of an external law code; it is rather a question of the Holy Spirit's producing His fruit in the life, reproducing those graces which were seen in perfection in the life of Christ.
Though we often have this skewed idea of a kind of down-in-the-mouth way of living when we think of holiness, a dull keep-all-the-rules existence, that is not what holiness is about at all. When we live holy lives, we are being imitators of Christ. His Spirit is producing the fruit of Christ likeness in us.

So when you think of holiness, think "love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control" (Galatians 5:22-23). This is the fruitful life of Christ in us. This is holiness!

And when you blow it - get angry instead of exhibiting patience, for instance - God's Word instructs the believer to confess that sin and be cleansed (1 John 1:9). Remember that confessing your sin of anger before your kind and faithful Heavenly Father is also an act of holiness, since "measuring everything in this world by the standard of His Word", is part of what it means to be holy. And the promise is that He will "wash your feet", He will cleanse you from all unrighteousness.

And, by the way...a foot bath - I mean, a real foot bath - you know, when someone else cleanses and massages your feet...would you not agree that it is a most refreshing and delightful thing? This is what we find when we confess our sin. Why would we put off something so sweet? If you've been waiting, go to Him now and be cleansed by His perfect holiness!
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